Money Mindset Tips: 7 Insipid Things that are Killing Your Ability to Attract Wealth
May 18, 2022Frustrated because you aren’t making big money yet? The problem is bigger than you think. Although you think you are doing all of the right things, you have probably overlooked a big one—your mindset. I am going to help you change that through my tried-and-true money mindset tips.
In the words of country music legend, Kenny Rogers:
You've got to know when to hold 'em
Know when to fold 'em
Know when to walk away
And know when to run
If you want to make more money, you’ve got to learn what the obstacles are, how to overcome them and get out of your own way!
Money Mindset Tip #1: Imposter Syndrome
The #1 thing that is killing your ability to attract wealth: the imposter syndrome.
A phenomenon in which someone believes they are not good enough despite having outstanding academic and/or professional accomplishments.
This is a sad but very real experience that many women have, and unfortunately very common in female entrepreneurs.
No Discrimination
It affects everyone, including the rich and famous! Hollywood celebrities, Charlize Theron and Viola Davis have suffered from it. Even American author, poet and civil rights activist Maya Angelou confessed to experiencing it.
If you have had this feeling, you are not alone in it; however, that doesn't mean you should hold onto it. So, let’s kick that mentality and move into a more positive mindset.
Money Making Tip #2: Unworthiness
From feeling like a fraud to feeling unworthy. This is the second biggest reason you aren’t generating wealth.
How do you decide whether you are worthy—to be, do, say or charge something? It is typically assessed by comparing yourself to others, which is a flawed approach because no one else is you!
You are unique and therefore don’t compare to others. No one else has the same skills as you and they aren’t in the same place as you are in your business.
One of the craziest things you can do is measure yourself against someone who has been in business longer than you.
How can you compete with unrealistic expectations?
Simply put—you can’t—and end up thinking you aren’t good enough (see money mindset tip #1).
Money Mindset Tip #3: Perfectionism
Perfectionism—a self-destructive behavior that you need to stop right now!
It is the killer of dreams and damaging to entrepreneurs everywhere. The funny thing is, people actually think it’s a good thing.
If you’ve ever thought to yourself—I need to make this perfect before I put it out there—you are guilty of perfectionism.
This thought process will put a halt to everything, including making money.
Stop Over-Analyzing
When you analyze (and agonize) over your content before it even sees the light of day, you are sending out low vibrations and you know what happens when you stay in the land of low vibrations from my last post.
You hinder your ability to attract wealth. Perfectionism will hold you back every time.
Read more about how perfectionism holds you back and how to avoid other major entrepreneurial mistakes that women are making.
Money Making Tip #4: Procrastination
Oh, procrastination—the I’ll-do-anything-else action before working on my business content. It’s no wonder it hurts my wealth building.
We’ve probably all been guilty of this a time or two. I mean, there are many days where I would rather make treats for my daughter’s class or go pickup the dry cleaning before working on what I should be working on.
Procrastination is one of the main barriers blocking you from making the right decisions and living the dream life you've thought of.
Money Mindset Tip #5: Seeking Validation
Seeking validation is a perfectly normal human instinct. We are naturally social creatures. We thrive in a community; therefore, have a strong desire to belong in that community and seek validation from it.
This can be really gratifying…and addicting. It can easily overpower your own thoughts. You will start to base all of your decisions on what others think.
Thoughts like:
- “If someone would tell me how awesome I am, I could do this.”
- “I wonder what so-and-so thinks I should do.”
- “Should I be doing what she is doing?”
Do you see how this can become overwhelming?
Constantly asking or wondering what someone else is doing in their business defeats the purpose of running your own business.
Stop seeking validation and start thriving in your own headspace.
Money Making Tip #6: Lack Mentality
Have you ever insulted yourself for the sake of being more relatable to your friends? What about accusing yourself of wrongdoing when you achieve something?
Similar to the Imposter Syndrome (see tip #1), these actions not only indicate there is something going on with your self confidence, but something much deeper. Purposefully bringing yourself down because you believe your gain is someone else’s loss is a phenomenon called lack mentality.
You believe that there isn’t enough in the world (not enough love, success, money, health, happiness). So, if you are in love, have success, money, health and happiness then you must be taking it from someone else.
It is pretty obvious how detrimental this can be to your mental health and your growing business.
This self sabotage, negative emotion not only affects your well-being, but it also prevents you from receiving anything other than that. Negativity generates negativity—it’s a bad place to be.
Money Mindset Tip #7: Scarcity Mentality
When you are hyper-focused on what you are lacking in life and no matter how hard you try, you can’t focus on anything else, you are living in a scarcity mentality.
This is when you obsess about not having enough of something—time, money, clients, etc. When those worries consume you, there isn’t much room left for positive thoughts.
And you know how important positive thoughts are.
A scarcity mentality can take a big toll on your mental (and financial) health.
Read more about the power of positivity here.
Next Steps: Financial Health
Now that you have cleared a mental path to openly receive wealth, it’s time to set the foundation for your future finances.
Have you read my other blog posts on financial health? If you learned something from this one, you don’t want to miss the others in my money and mindset series. Here are a few I think you’ll really enjoy:
Entrepreneur Advice: The #1 Change You Need to Make to Create a Profitable Business
Simple Money Management Tips: 3 Ways to Practice Financial Self Care
How to Make Money as an Entrepreneur: 9 Crucial Steps for Your First 100K Year
How to Attract Abundance: Discover 3 Ways to Shift Your Money Vibration Today
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Have you ever felt a quiet whisper within, urging you to step into a fuller version of yourself? A gentle nudge that says, "There's more to you than meets the eye—let it out, let it roar." For years, I felt that whisper growing louder, evolving into a desire that I could no longer contain.
My journey with divine expression began as a delicate dance between fear and faith. I had stories to tell, lessons learned from the depths of my spirit, but the thought of sharing them with the world felt like standing on the edge of a vast abyss. What if my voice wasn't enough? What if my words fell on deaf ears?
One day, amidst this internal struggle, I found myself gazing at a sunset, the sky ablaze with hues of gold and crimson. It was as if the universe was painting a masterpiece, unapologetically showcasing its brilliance without hesitation. In that moment, I realized that nature never doubts its expression—why should I?
Fueled by this revelation, I poured my heart and soul into writing my book, "When Lions Roar." It wasn't just a title; it was a mantra, a declaration of stepping into my power. Each page became a testament to embracing authenticity, courage, and the divine voice that resides in all of us.
The journey wasn't easy. There were nights filled with self-doubt and days when the words seemed tangled and elusive. But with each paragraph, I felt layers of fear peeling away, replaced by a profound sense of liberation. Writing became my sanctuary, a sacred space where my spirit could dance freely.
When "When Lions Roar" was finally released, I was humbled and overjoyed to see it become a #1 best-seller and receive multiple awards. But beyond the accolades, the true gift was hearing from readers whose lives were touched by my words. Their stories of awakening, empowerment, and newfound courage reminded me of the incredible ripple effect our authentic expression can have.
This journey taught me that our voices are not meant to be silenced or suppressed. They are divine instruments designed to uplift, inspire, and connect us on the deepest levels. When we allow ourselves to speak our truth, we invite others to do the same, creating a symphony of souls roaring in unison.
Now, I feel a calling to extend this transformative experience to you. If you've ever felt that inner roar longing to be heard, a story aching to be shared, or a message that could light up someone's world, I want to walk alongside you on that path.
That's why I'm hosting an upcoming Power Circle dedicated to Divine Expression: Influential Writing for Spiritual Leaders. It's a sacred gathering where we'll delve into the art of influential spiritual writing, debunk common myths, and uncover the steps to crafting content that resonates deeply.
We'll explore how to:
Demystify influential spiritual writing and communicate truths that transform.
Discover the four essential steps to crafting impactful spiritual content.
Embrace authenticity and power in your expression, overcoming obstacles with confidence.
Imagine connecting with like-minded souls, engaging in enriching discussions, and participating in activities that ignite your creative spirit. This isn't just about writing—it's about stepping into your role as a spiritual leader, fully embracing the divine expression that is uniquely yours.
If this resonates with you, I'd be honored for you to join me.
P.S. The world is waiting for your roar. Secure your spot in this transformative Power Circle by RSVPing by December 3rd. Let's embark on this journey of divine expression together: https://www.karengrubercoaching.com/fes-power-circle-november-2024-divine-expression
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In the world of entrepreneurship, especially as a spiritual entrepreneur, content has always been more than just words on a page. It’s a way to connect, to inspire, and to lead others on their own transformational journey. My path to creating innovative content strategies wasn’t a straight line, but a winding road of trial, discovery, and growth.
When I first started sharing my message, I believed that content meant following certain formulas or trends—until I realized that true innovation doesn’t come from doing what everyone else is doing. It comes from tapping into my authenticity, listening deeply to what my community needed, and infusing my work with my unique voice. The breakthrough happened when I shifted my focus from creating content just for the sake of visibility to crafting content that matters—content that sparks curiosity, stirs emotions, and fosters meaningful connections.
Innovative content isn’t about being flashy or following the latest buzz. It’s about speaking directly to the hearts of those we are meant to serve. And for me, that meant peeling back the layers and embracing vulnerability in my messaging, showing up as both a guide and a fellow traveler on this entrepreneurial journey.
This shift wasn’t only about business success (though I’ve seen incredible growth and engagement). It has fundamentally changed how I live my life. I no longer see creating content as a task but as a form of self-expression, a way to lead from my soul and honor the gifts I’ve been given to share with the world. Every post, video, and story is infused with intention and a deep desire to uplift others while remaining rooted in who I am.
Through this process, I’ve learned that success, both in life and in business, comes when we lean into our creativity and trust our inner guidance. This is the essence of my upcoming Power Circle, "Innovative Content Strategies: Unique Approaches to Shine Above the Rest." We’ll be exploring how to break free from the constraints of content creation myths and instead, cultivate content that aligns with our unique purpose and audience.
I invite you to join me for this transformative gathering where together, we’ll step into the forefront of creative marketing. Let’s embrace what makes us different, and through our content, shine above the rest—not just in the marketplace but in the way we live our lives.
RSVP by October 29th and take the first step towards manifesting your miracles. Let's walk this path together. Claim your spot and start creating with intention!
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There was a time when I doubted whether true miracles were possible. I had heard about the power of manifestation, of aligning with the universe to bring forth my deepest desires, but it felt distant, something reserved for those who knew the "secrets" or had mastered the spiritual arts. I felt successful, sure, but something was missing. I wanted to manifest not just success, but a life and business that truly reflected my soul's calling—a journey that would leave a lasting impact, both spiritually and materially.
It all began when I decided to fully embrace the concept of manifesting miracles. I remember thinking, "What if I just allow this to work?" That thought was the seed that changed everything. My approach shifted from doubt to curiosity, from skepticism to possibility. I dove deep into understanding what manifestation truly meant, not just in theory, but in practice. I learned that it's not about waiting passively for good things to happen; it's about becoming an active co-creator of my life. I began applying principles that aligned with my highest aspirations, and, step by step, I started seeing the results.
One of the most transformative moments for me was when I realized that manifesting isn’t just about thinking positively or visualizing outcomes. It's about releasing the myths and truly understanding the mechanics of how energy, intention, and action work together to bring forth what we desire. In my business, that meant more than just hitting income goals or launching successful programs—it meant creating offerings that were in total alignment with who I am at my core. It meant attracting clients who weren’t just looking for business strategies, but who were also seeking deep spiritual and personal transformation.
Manifesting miracles has taught me to trust in timing, in the ebb and flow of life. I’ve learned that manifestation isn't linear. There were moments of doubt, of frustration when things didn’t unfold as quickly as I wanted. But in those moments, I practiced resilience, knowing that sometimes the delay wasn’t a "no," but rather, a preparation for something far greater. The more I aligned my thoughts, actions, and intentions with my soul's purpose, the more effortlessly things seemed to fall into place. Opportunities appeared, relationships blossomed, and my business grew in ways I never thought possible.
Now, manifestation is a daily practice for me. It's not just a one-time event or something to turn to in times of need; it's a lifestyle. Every day, I set intentions. Every day, I take steps—both big and small—that move me closer to my vision. And every day, I cultivate a mindset that allows me to remain open to the miracles that are unfolding all around me.
The most powerful realization for me has been that manifesting miracles is about trusting that the universe is always working in my favor, even when it doesn’t look or feel like it. It’s about remaining unwavering in my vision, even when challenges arise. And it’s about showing up fully, knowing that the energy I bring into every moment has the power to shift my reality.
I am living proof that miracles happen when you align with your highest purpose and take action from that place of alignment. My journey has been full of twists, turns, and lessons, but each step has brought me closer to living a life that feels truly miraculous.
And now, I invite you to join me on this journey-Wednesday, September 25th. The next Power Circle, “Manifesting Miracles: Tools and Techniques for Powerful Results,” is designed to guide you through your own process of manifestation. If you're ready to understand the real power behind manifesting and learn the tools and techniques that can help you create extraordinary outcomes in your life and business, this event is for you.
RSVP by September 24th and take the first step towards manifesting your miracles. Let's walk this path together. You can secure your spot here: https://www.karengrubercoaching.com/fes-power-circle-september-2024-manifesting-miracles.
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Decades ago, when I first embarked on my entrepreneurial journey, I was filled with passion and determination. I had a vision, a plan, and all the strategies in place. Yet, despite my best efforts, something was missing. I felt like I was constantly pushing against an invisible barrier, struggling to make the impact I knew I was capable of.
I remember the countless nights spent brainstorming, revising, and re-strategizing, hoping to find that elusive key to success. Despite the long hours and unwavering dedication, my business seemed to plateau, unable to break through to the next level. Frustration and doubt began to creep in, making me question if I was truly on the right path.
It wasn't until I discovered the profound power of energetic alignment that everything began to shift. I started exploring the concept of energetic vibrations, initially skeptical but curious. What I found was profoundly changing. Understanding and harnessing my energy allowed me to move through my entrepreneurial endeavors with a newfound sense of ease and flow. My business began to resonate more deeply with my true self, and in turn, with my audience. I started to change my daily activities to align with the woman who already had what I wanted.
I also began setting clear, intentional goals that aligned with my highest values and aspirations. This alignment made decision-making easier and more intuitive. One specific example was when I launched a new program that blended spiritual practices with business strategies. The response was incredible – I filled all the slots within days, something I had never experienced before. Clients began to tell me how much they resonated with my message and felt a genuine connection, which made them more eager to engage and invest in my offerings.
These changes not only boosted my business growth but also brought a profound sense of satisfaction and purpose to my work.
The Awakening
The turning point came during a particularly challenging period in my life and business. I was attending a retreat focused on personal growth and spiritual development. One of the sessions introduced the concept of energetic vibrations and their impact on our daily lives and professional endeavors. The idea that our thoughts, emotions, and intentions could directly influence our business outcomes was both intriguing and liberating.
As I delved deeper into this concept, I began to notice subtle shifts in my mindset and approach. Instead of pushing against obstacles, I started to flow with them, recognizing that every challenge carried a lesson and an opportunity for growth. This shift in perspective was profound. I felt lighter, more focused, and incredibly motivated.
Implementing Energetic Principles
Integrating energetic principles into my business wasn't an overnight process. It required patience, practice, and a willingness to let go of old, limiting beliefs. I began by setting clear, intentional goals that aligned with my highest values and aspirations. I practiced mindfulness and meditation to center myself and maintain a high vibrational state.
One of the most significant changes I made was to cultivate a positive and abundant mindset. I learned to trust in the process, believing that the universe was conspiring in my favor. This belief wasn't just a comforting thought; it became a guiding principle that influenced every decision I made.
Through aligning my business strategies with high-vibrational energy, I experienced a dramatic transformation. I began to attract the right clients, create more impactful content, and see tangible growth in my business. But more importantly, I felt more connected, purposeful, and fulfilled. This was the missing piece I had been searching for, and it elevated not just my business but my entire life.
Real-Life Impact
One of the most memorable moments of my journey was when a client, who had been struggling with her own business for years, shared her breakthrough with me. By applying the energetic principles we had discussed, she was able to overcome her fears, attract her ideal clients, and achieve her financial goals. Maya’s story was a testament to the power of energetic alignment and reinforced my belief in this transformative approach.
The journey of energetic alignment isn't just my story; it's a path that many successful entrepreneurs have walked. This approach is about more than just business success; it's about creating a life that feels deeply aligned with your true self, filled with purpose, passion, and prosperity.
Your Invitation
I am thrilled to invite you to join our upcoming Power Circle event, "Energetic Entrepreneurship: Leveraging Vibrations for Prosperity and Impact." This 90-minute session is designed to demystify the concept of energetic vibrations and provide you with practical tools to harness this power for your business success.
In this comprehensive session, you will:
Demystify Energetic Vibrations: Explore and debunk common myths. Understand what it really means to harness your energy for entrepreneurial success.
Align Your Business with High-Vibrational Energy: Discover the three essential steps to guide you from initial concept to impactful execution, ensuring your business resonates with both you and your audience.
Build Resilience and Intentionality: Gain the confidence and clarity needed to navigate challenges and maintain a prosperous, high-energy approach to entrepreneurship.
You'll walk away feeling enlightened, prepared, and eager to integrate energetic principles into your business.
This Power Circle isn't just about theory; it's about inspiring you to take action and integrate these principles into your entrepreneurial journey. Whether you're starting a new venture or looking to elevate an existing one, this session will provide you with the tools, strategies, and motivation to thrive.
Join us for this empowering event and take the first step towards transforming your entrepreneurial dreams into reality. RSVP by July 30th to secure your spot in this transformative gathering. Let's embark on a journey of prosperous and impactful entrepreneurship together!
I can't wait to share this space with you and witness the incredible transformations that await. Remember, aligning your energy isn't just a strategy; it's a way to infuse your business with purpose and passion, creating a ripple effect of prosperity and impact.
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